Her Name is Emily

 

she worked in Pret A Manger as an Assistant Manager of the Kitchen (AMK).

She committed suicidal.

 

 

“Exploitative employers, We are coming for you”

 

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Quote of the Day:

“Our message to exploitative employers is, that we are coming for you!”

John McDonnell

 

 

London’s Leicester Square 04.10.2018

 

 

Spoonstrike

 

 

BFAWU

 

 

A Message To Chains

 

For my people in the shops and on the streets, being loud and clear to say that we care for more than just peanuts and we deserve better than the disrespect we encounter for too long…

I miss my colleagues, working with them shoulder to shoulder, so I march with them shoulder to shoulder…. This is for them… more to come ………

 

 

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A Message to Chains

 

One of those mornings

when I enter the shop

waiting for my colleagues to arrive

I am extremely down that day

but I keep going

 

Setting up the coffee machine

putting the frozen croissants into the oven

answering the phone to a colleague calling sick

putting down the phone

picking up my heart

I keep going

 

My team’s starting to trickle in

one by one, tired but Pret A Faire

I’m glad to see them

we all disperse to our jobs

and later the boss arrives

but I keep going

 

Noon-time

I want to press the snooze button

No! I want to smash it!

So exhausted!

Rude and ungrateful customers

boss having a go at us

colleagues fatigued

but I keep going

 

Hours missing from my pay

getting told off for nothing

rota changed without notice

and I keep going

 

Made a mistake

nothing much

but a catastrophe for my boss

so I keep crawling

 

Feeling low after life’s blow

going to work without pay

without help, with no meaning…

being bullied…

I keep going

and I strike

I strike

I strike

 

I strike back!

 

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Fast-food Workers Strike, Leicester Square, London, nationwide and in other countries 4th October 2018.

 

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Pret A Mathematics – 10 Hearings – 20 People – 17 Women – 3 Men

 

Many people in the public and mainstream media don’t want to know about my trauma with Pret A Manger. The mask that Pret wears since decades gets new make-up on with every charity and good deed they publish, no matter how many customers die or staff end their life.

 


 

UPDATE 10. March 2019

I saw a play last night by Byrony Kimmings that was the best play I’ve ever seen, and I go to many plays, concerts, events etc. since years. The only cultural “event” I’m not too keen on is cinema, but live shows, theater, concerts, fringe, West End … anything live does it for me. The “all-round” production last night that touched me, not only because it was autobiographical but unexpectedly creative, bursting with creativity and imagination turning trauma into storytelling like I’ve never experienced! I wrote a review after returning home that the standing ovation was an understatement. Rising to the ceiling and applauding on our heads wouldn’t have done it justice!

This play helped me to be even more determined now to keep telling my story of trauma, no matter who wants to hear, even block me on Twitter, look away, keep believing the bullcrap Pret presents… It’s my story and many others’… My only regret last night was that I just stumbled upon the play just yesterday morning online and it was the last night of performance! 😦

But I’m a Phoenix (too), Bitch! And I am learning to tell my story in a more lighter way for bite-sized portions to digest.

 


 

Pret uses women against women, bereaved against bereaved, staff against staff …

I went through 10 hearings in Pret A Manger.

In the 10 hearings held by 20 people (10 HR Personnel/Note-takers and 10 OPs/Group Managers) 17 of the 20 people were women, only 3 were men.

I ask if this is discrimination, lack of male staff, was I as a woman too strong for men or were women used against women! A mix of all this for sure.

Pret’s HR department under the Head of HR and the PBP who was instrumental in targeting me (and of course since been promoted), have dealt with my situation typically for a toxic HR department, catering to a CEO who does not want to get his hands dirty in the hiring and firing of staff. Instead, he “pret-ends” (sorry, can’t help the word play!) that my emailing was wrong while calling me his “late night girl”, having a laugh about bereaved and traumatized employees. Even using another bereaved employee from HQ who had the same loss of her brother. And then letting HR via a female OPs fire me while my dad was in intensive care just out of a three week coma.

There is no company that I have ever worked in or even known from friends’ workplace, that I have experienced as such toxic and corrupt company as Pret A Manger.

You heads of departments, CEO, directors … thanks for reading, maybe one day you have the courage to respond without your usual tricks and traps and dishonesty. You hurt people, you destroy lives, you are dangerous for people’s mental and physical health, no matter if staff or customers. No amount of money and position can help your conscience.

 

 

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I worked at Pret A Manger for almost 10 years and survived systemic workplace bullying during bereavement that involved HR, the top leadership, HQ and even the CEO. For an overview of important blog entries of my experience with Pret, please visit “My Ordeal with Pret A Manger”. The little arrow to the right next to each heading will lead directly to the post. I also tell my story for the first time verbally in this >>> podcast interview based in California. Thank you for reading/listening.

Interview:

 

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The Listening Place (For the Suicidal)

 

This charity does what it says “on the tin”!

I was one of the first when they started, maybe a first? But they took me in when I didn’t care where I was going. I was just ready to go.

Sarah Anderson, now the CEO was incredibly patient. My regards to my volunteer P. and his mentor M.12, thank you!

The Listening Place offer more than just a phone call in one-off conversation with an anonymous “Jo” at the other end of the line of the Samaritans.

 

If you feel like life is just gone for you, give them a go, they care. They really care.

 

I was referred to the Listening Place by another charity Maytree who have a house in North London, where people with suicidal thoughts can stay 5 nights for free in a non-judgmental environment and really just be and talk with first hand experienced volunteers.

Maytree is featured in this documentary where I first learned about them in the darkest moments of my life. In this documentary it is explained what exactly this charity does.

Maytree works together with The Listening Place that is an ambulant face-to-face support charity, and I can only speak from my own experience with The Listening Place that it is truly a charity that does what it says on the tin!

 

 

In this video Sarah Anderson rightly explains that 99.9% of suicidal people are being sent away from A&E back to their GP. I went to A&E three times, the second time after having waited over 2 hours to even be seen, I left in the middle of the night as the waiting time would be at least 4 hours. The third time I was sent away again from the psychiatric liaison team after 2 hours of begging to get into hospital. After the second time being sent away I gave up on hospital.

If it wasn’t for The Listening Place’s approach and their tireless patience (especially from Sarah Anderson, M.12 & my volunteer P.), I don’t know where I would be. I was stuck in a job at Pret A Manger where I was bullied during already traumatic bereavement after having lost my brother. I went between the toxic work environment in Pret to the acceptance and non-judgmental environment of The Listening Place, back an forth in-between all the other tumultuous stumbling around life trying to make sense, wanting to die, but wanting to live.

 

And now The Listening Place received this well deserved award.

A worthwhile charity to support! They put their money where their mouth is.

 

 

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